We know perfectly well how the world could be unpleasant place ,how people could be vicious ,and how eventually we need a place where everything is fine.
The human nature is a really peculiar thing , sometimes we pretend that we don’t want to interact with other people,with the people who we really need to be close . Dignity ,pride (it could be everything,sometimes without specific reason). It sound ridiculous and amusement and it’s true.
The problem.We make a choices ,decisions with who we want to be close and with who not. Does that make our decision precise and accurate ?Very often ,it doesn’t matter .Because as long we are feeling save and happy everything is just perfect ,well people change ,grow up and just have a different meaning and perception than ours . Then ,we have two options,to accept the change or just to walk away and never look back. So,friend or foe, well life is unexpected !Nobody can guarantee nothing to nobody However it’s still really fascinating and astounding to realize how things ‘ve changed without our awareness .But we ‘ve change ,too ,we just are not able to realize that .We hurt people,they hurt us,we don’t overcome that or they don’t ,end of the story…now ,we are just “somebody who they used to know”.
Anyway, despite this we are tenacious and stubborn and start searching…for new best friends ,lovers…
Because at the end of the day ,all we want is to feel someone’s presence and forget for a moment or two that we are alone .Choosing these people ,we make them our second family and home , another one who we admire ,love and ready to defend if it’s necessary.
Here is the solution :we don’t have to pretend that we are solid and insensible ,since occasionally the invasion of personal space ,it can be exactly what we need. (and the best things happen by a chance…who knows?)