Month: February 2013

To be or not to be-yes ,this is the question

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In my believing ,William Shakespeare was one of the few people who truly understand this fundamental phrase.Maybe ,this is the most important question that could be asked and could bring great troubles.

Well,apart from Shakespeare ,despite from the progress of the world and almost 500 years after this words had been uttered for the first time,this question lacks satisfying answer.What would Shakespeare have said If’d been alive,well …presumably nothing good.Silly people,silly world.

Actually ,it is not so easy to have a gratifying answer to this question,since it represents kind of dilemma.Consequently,this leads to another problem such as endless and wearing combat between you and your another you.Fine ,let’s make things clear,I am talking about “what someone wants to be” and “what other people wants from someone to be”,there is big difference ,right!Here,I am discussing one of the main reasons for our anxiety ,for our obstacles in communication’s skills and interaction.As it is enough conspicuous ,there is huge difference expectations about what you want and the other people’s expectation (how you suppose to behave in every moment).AND HERE IT COMES …this great struggles!!!

This struggling,this incessant compromising,this choosing the others (parents,family numbers ,friends and even acquaintances) could sooner or later has bad effect on us.

Well, we are told that only thing we need to be is just to be ourselves,but what if it means to be ourselves behind the mask of “i have to be” instead of “i want to be…”.

It is not so easy,isn’t it?

Life’s seasons

Well,after a long time in my absence I ‘m back !

Everyone says (or the majority of people I know)that the best part of their life is the childhood!Which immediately revive the associations related to the childhood memories.Personally, my theory is that if life has to be divided into seasons it might looks like this : summer-childhood,spring-puberty ,autumn-maturity and the last one winter -elder ages.Well,it sounds like a fair-tale,but it has resembles ,hasn’t it?

However ,this is not the point!If I have to be completely honest my best time (for now,because I am only 24 years old) is the spring season.Because I used to be more open-minded,braver,more curious,more acceptable and the most important without these layers of prejudices(which I’d sooner not to have).I always think of it in that way,because when I was a teenage girl I was so exited to know the world around me,to know more and more people ,I used to feel like Alice in Wonderland,it was almost like a magic.

Everyone know this feeling,this incredible confidence,this almost endless power and the insatiable desire for explorations.

This is the best time of your life to understand who you are ,what you want and to create the layers of the next season.But you should be careful,since the haphazard changes which occurs in that time might be perilous and with lasting effects.

My aunt once told my that the way you love someone when you’re young couldn’t compare with anything.

Might she was right…

I would like to say that life-changing is constant thing,like in every three days our bodies produce new blood cells,in every three day we have a chance to change our life for better.

No matter how good was the past ,we can’t bring it back,but we can make our feature far more better.

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